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Showing posts with label confront. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confront. Show all posts

Thursday, 30 December 2010

Everybody lies, and everybody is two faced, no matter how hard people try and persuade you otherwise. Theres always the "she said this" and "have you seen her new hair", and I have recently realised that boys are also very bitchy! So I don't think people should get upset as they should when they find out someones speaking about them behind there back, unless there best mates, which I can completely understand. I wish that nobody would do this though, but thats never going to change. But the thing that really gets to me is when people bitch to you about someone, then bitch about you to that person, and everyone thinks there innocent. I also hate it when they tell the person that you've said stuff and don't mention the fact they also joined in with the bitching. The last thing I hate is when someone bitches to you, and then in front of that person, they lick there arse and worship them, and treat you like shit. This happened to me today, and it really did upset me. But when I confronted her, she genuinly didn't realise what she'd done, so I forgave her because she means the world to me. I think you should just keep your friends close and just turn a blind eye whenever people say any rubbish about you, your better than them, and at least your the main bit of there conversation!
by KAB

Wednesday, 8 December 2010

suck ups!

Oh well, the thing that has started to grind my gears is when my friends bitch about people and run back to them when they have know body. In all fairness I'm not one to say that i haven't because I have, but I don't do it in every ones face and i try my hardest not to bitch about my friend's or even stab them in the back.

I've realized that the only thing you can do when your in this situation is, go up to the person bitching and confront them or go up to the person getting bitched about and tell them all about whats happening, But if you ever come across something and have to do either off these option's you have to be prepare to take full responsibility and own up to telling the person(s).

In a situation like this I've watched people confess about what they've done once they've been caught out, and then when the other person moans / argues with them, they haven't liked it and tried to make them self look like the victim in the situation. If the person bitching in the first place decided not to be a back stabber then none of the situations would have happened and know body would have argued or moaned at them, so before you start pointing the finger you need to look at both sides of every story.

Peace out hoes!#